It's no secret that I absolutely LOVE making and receiving Christmas cards. I'm not sure if it's the nerdy English major in me or the remnant of childhood Jen who loved writing stories and sending letters to friends and family, but there is something about holiday correspondence that really brings me joy. I have sent a holiday photo card and letter every year since Micah and I have been married. I save each card in a red linen photo album I bring out each December as part of our Christmas decor. It's so fun to read through the past years' greetings, and I hope someday the album is thick with decades of stories and photographs. Katy Girl Designs - 2015 card INVITEDdesignCO - 2021 card The first few years we were married, I ordered cards through Shutterfly or Snapfish. They were fine, but since then I've realized I want a higher quality card that I am able to fully customize. I also want something where I can put a photo on the front with space to print my yearly letter on the back, so I don't have to print and mail a separate piece of paper along with a photo. Here is what I do: Get family photos. Although I would love to spend tons of money for a fancy family portrait session, we usually don't budget for such an expense. In the past, we've asked a budding high school or college photographer, a close family friend, and even a friend of a friend (when we moved to California and didn't know anyone yet) to take family pictures for us. I will give them a little cash or a gift card. I have also swapped taking photos with another family. You can also browse through the photos you already have from the year to see if there are any gems you would like to share. Some professional photographers offer "mini-sessions" for the holiday season where you can get a 15-20 minute shoot for around $200 instead of a full-length shoot that often costs $400+. Choose a unique card design from Etsy. You see it every year. Once your cards from friends and family start arriving, you start noticing duplicate designs from common card vendors like Shutterfly or Costco. I always want to make sure our card is unique, so I turn to Etsy to make my selection. Get a glimpse of the offerings on Etsy here. Once I choose a card, I order it, send my pictures to the artist/shop owner, and I usually have my finished card within 48 hours. Write a letter. Obviously, this is optional. Fewer and fewer people include letters in their cards these days (Don't we know EVERYTHING from social media already?), but I hate to see this old-fashioned tradition fade away. In our letter, I include family highlights from the year and share the Gospel with friends and family. However, if you don't have time or don't want to write a letter, there are lots of fun two-sided greeting cards that allow room for extra pictures or even a quick blurb update in lieu of a full letter. I write my letter on a 5x7 page in Word/Pages, so it will already be the right size for my postcard. I proofread the letter a zillion times, read it aloud to Micah, and then save the file as a PDF. Sign up for Rakuten. Before you purchase cards or anything else online during the holiday season, make sure you are signed up to get cash back through Rakuten. If you install Rakuten in your browser, it will pop up and tell you when an online store is offering cash back. During the holidays, the cash-back amounts often soar up to 10% and 20%, so you make money just by doing your normal Christmas shopping. I usually receive a check for $100-200 in cash back in February from my holiday spending. Print your postcards using Overnight Prints. For the past nine years now, I have used Overnight Prints for our cards. They have high-quality two-sided 5x7 postcards that are very affordable. I upload my photo file (jpeg) from Etsy to the front and my letter (PDF) to the back. I love the quality of this product, especially since there are NO company logos anywhere on the card. You can also order envelopes with your order for an extra $5. These postcards are completely customizable and fit my dual photo/letter needs perfectly. *Two notes about using Overnight Prints: 1) The postcard quantities are kind of weird. They jump from 100 to 250. I typically need about 110 postcards each year, so I do one order of 100 and then duplicate my order (an option in the shopping cart) and place another order for 25 cards (the smallest amount they sell). This works fine and gives me a few extras in case I need them. 2) Despite the name, Overnight Prints actually has fairly slow standard shipping. You can, of course, pay extra for overnight shipping or expedited 2-3 day shipping, but if you want to pay their standard shipping fee, expect to wait about a week for your package. It's worth the wait to me because the product is so great. They also now offer full mailing services, so they can send your cards out on your behalf to the addresses you provide. This is the process I use to create our Christmas card each year. It ensures a unique card for a good price. Here is the approximate cost break-down: Photography: Free-$200 Etsy design: $10-12 100 postcards and envelopes from Overnight Prints: $100 Postage for approximately 100 postcards (save money by hand-delivering to local friends): $55 My total this year (with free photography) was: $134.00. To me, it's worth every penny to share God's goodness with friends and family and add another page to our family album. ... Read more
Not Afraid
Today is the big day. Election day, that is. After months of argument, agony, and astonishment, today the nation will elect the next President of the United States of America. I have my list of candidates and the propositions I plan to vote for or against tucked into my purse. I spent the last week doing research on laws, policies, and politicians in this new state of ours. I will go to the polls today and fill out my ballot with patriotic pride, thankfulness, and prayer... And then I will go to work, and I will pick up my kids, and I will make dinner, and I will watch the election results roll in on the local news channel, and I will not flinch or flutter... because I am not afraid. This election has been founded on fear. Corruption. Terrorism. Sexual assault. Drones. Refugees. Russia. Racism. Computer hacks and Wikileaks. We have been told that if we don't vote the right way (be it for HRC, Trump, or a 3rd Party), America may never be the same. And you know what? That might be true. We may see our liberties disappear as a far-left government annihilates our constitution. We may see hatred and suffering increase under the hand of an authoritarian-style far-right dictator. We may just see a mediocre presidency that lasts for the next 4-8 years. I have no idea. But I can tell you some things I do know: America is probably not going to be "great" again, no matter who our president is... at least from a spiritual perspective. While I love that voters have a passion for progress and reform and revitalization, my favorite history book (The Bible) tells me where we are headed. Whether quickly or slowly, whether we get "good" supreme court judges or "bad" ones, we are headed toward the End Times. We are going to see a rise in secularism and a more culturally acceptable hatred for God, His Kingdom, and His people. I'm not an end-times prophet by any means, I've just read the New Testament a time or two. As Christians, we have the Bible (the very word of God) to tell us what's right and wrong no matter what laws or policies our government dictates. We have new opportunities to serve our neighbors and share the Gospel as our society changes politically. Animosity growing toward immigrants, Muslims, and refugees? Invite your Muslim neighbor or the refugee family from church over for dinner and show them the kindness and hospitality depicted time and time again in the Bible. Tired of your "pro-choice" friend questioning your "pro-life" rhetoric? Stop talking and start serving. Find a crisis pregnancy center or an organization that helps teen moms and love these women and their children with your time, attention, and provision. While elections bring out false accusations and condemning language from so many, Believers should be the first to practice Matthew 7:5... always looking first to our own sin (the log in our own eye) before we try to remove the speck from our brother's eye. Lots of lies are thrown around during election time, but sometimes there is truth in the mix. Christians should be the first to humbly inspect themselves and ask how they are falling short of loving their neighbors as the election brings up issues of injustice and need within our communities. We know the ending to this story, my friends. We know it will get worse, before it gets better. The conclusion is this... redemption, reconciliation, renewal. A glorious inheritance for all eternity. We have a God that promises to always work for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28). No election, no candidate, no proposition can thwart God's power. I am thankful this election has asked me to test my own beliefs and anchor myself in Christ for coming trials. Why should I be afraid when the ruler of the universe has already died to save me? What can man do to me? I'll leave you with a prayer I prayed with my students yesterday... Lord, please guide our country tomorrow as its citizens head to the polls. Help Believers everywhere remember that You are in control and we can trust in You. May our words and actions reflect the truth that You are good and You are sovereign to our neighbors who don't know You. We are not afraid, because Jesus is our mighty King. ... Read more
Cozy
Now that the news is out (Baby #3 is on the way!), I can finally write about all things pregnancy... I found out I was pregnant the week school started at Vanguard. The test said positive and within days I felt utterly awful. It was my roughest first trimester yet, constant nausea only to be abated by constant eating, and I happened to be in the first few busy weeks of my dream career. Oh, and we were in the middle of moving to a furnished rental, which involved sorting through and packing up 90% of what we own and taking load after load to a storage unit for weeks on end. Weeks 6-9 of pregnancy almost wrecked me. I remember lying in bed on a Sunday evening fantasizing about how I could get some Zofran on the black market. I was still a week or two away from my first OB appointment, but I didn't know if I could wait until then. Did eBay sell nausea drugs? I have never had to take medication during pregnancy before, but suddenly I was desperate for it. One Monday in my 9am class, I asked my students where the best breakfast burrito around campus was. They gave me their recommendations, and I sped to the nearest shop directly after class to consume approximately 900 calories of egg, potato, bacon, and cheese as fast as I could. After that, I began a ritual of going to Starbucks for a second breakfast after my first class of the day (shorter drive and less expensive than a breakfast burrito). God's grace to me was $3.75 bacon, egg, and gouda sandwiches at 10am every single morning between my classes during the first trimester. Just enough protein and calories to appease my stomach until lunch. The good news is the really bad nausea only lasted for 3-4 weeks. I know some women deal with it for their whole pregnancy, so I consider myself blessed. I never needed drugs. It turns out I just needed to eat at least 3,000 calories a day. But you know what the benefit of this constant, overwhelming sickness was? I learned to get cozy. I've heard lots of women talk about the sheer exhaustion of the first trimester, but I never really experienced it the first two times. Sure, I felt a little tired from time to time, but the stories of needing a nap every day or falling asleep at 7pm never really resonated with me. Until now. This time around, I would walk Talitha upstairs for her morning nap, and then collapse on my bed utterly exhausted. It was a combination of feeling winded from walking my 24 pound baby up the stairs and my body simply feeling wretched. I would usually just close my eyes for 20 minutes, and then go about my day. This is so unlike me. Micah and I are very devoted to our Sunday sabbath, and I do no work on that day, but every other day of the week, I am a hustler. I never stop. Except for the occasional scroll on my phone, I am driven by my to-do list. Unload the dishwasher, grade papers, clean the bathrooms. I rarely sit down. Or at least, that's how I used to be. But thanks to this pregnancy, and feeling awful during some of the busiest weeks of my life, I have learned to stop and get cozy during the day. Most of the time, the means crawling onto my bed to read for a few minutes in the midst of my t0-do list. Clean one bathroom, read a chapter, clean the other bathroom. Sometimes I will just get in bed right after the girls do and read for an hour or more. I don't know who I am anymore, but I love it. With all my extra time spent in my bed, I read four books in three months. I know this is not a a lot. But, as someone who struggles to even read one book per month, this rate is astounding to me. And I am now on pace to read 6 books in 4 months. What? So although my first trimester was my roughest one yet, I'm thankful it taught me to slow down during a very busy season. My brain is sharp from reading so much and my lower-back (which dislikes pregnancy) is grateful I occasionally sit down during the day. Hopefully, I'll be able to keep up my new-found cozy ways when this new baby arrives and wants to snuggle. P.S. If you're curious, here are a few of the books I've been tearing through these past few months: Just Mercy, The Night Sister, The Woman in Cabin 10, Station Eleven, Allegiant, and I'm halfway done with The Martian. ... Read more
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